All images in this post are courtesy of “The Midnight Sky’ film

Welcome to Matriarchate! A new era has fully begun! If you don’t feel it just yet don’t worry you will begin to experience it now! The world has finally changed. And this is not to replace the failed Patriarchy but to find an equal footing and stance for both.

More and more women wake up to the fact that they don’t need to be rescued, saved, told what to do, cheated…

Today women demand worship and for their voice, opinion to be a CHERISHED VOICE in the room.

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Let the worship begin!

It really starts within a woman herself. Where does her worth & her value stems from?

“After all, we are all born into an ongoing family drama in which each generation passes on something to the next ”

— John Whittington

It has been a personal journey of mine …

It is a much bigger subject then I’ve initially stated in the title. You simply can’t put it into the Power for Women ribbon, tie it nicely and cut it for the inauguration. We have to consider the multi-generational layering that happens every time we interact.

For women to have more say, more power, more money, more freedom, more business, more success, more knowledge, more security and safety more more more… First it takes a woman to recognise that she can. It is very much a metal allowing, making space for the possibility that she can choose to go study like with Dr Terai Trent and that her value stems from within her. It also doesn’t mean that a woman needs to completely switch into her yang or masculine energy that would be out of alignment too.

Power and leadership used to be a male-only pursuit and there are too many to count that went wrong. If we look at the background of most successful men in leadership positions we can trace it to their family dynamic and their relationship with their mother and what was passed on generations on end.

In the words of John Whittington, even though “I can't agree with him. But I do agree with him: to his existence and what he has endured in the key relationship systems in which he has belonged. From that inner stance, I am prepared to look at him with growing compassion, respectful distance and without judgment. Knowing that he is, like all of us, trying to survive and thrive. The way he learnt to do that in the face of what he experienced from his parents and what he picked up from his ancestors is not good or bad, it just is. Just a survival response. To stay in this stance I have to spend time feeling into my truth and then writing and sharing”.

This can easily be changed to her: I can’t agree with her. But I do agree with her: to her existence and what she has endured in the key relationship systems in which she has belonged. From that inner stance, I am prepared to look at her with growing compassion, respectful distance and without judgment. Knowing that she is, like all of us, trying to survive and thrive. The way she learnt to do that in the face of what she experienced from her parents and what she picked up from her ancestors is not good or bad, it just is. Just a survival response. To stay in this stance I have to spend time feeling into my truth and then writing and sharing.

We now see that it is ok to disagree, get angry at first (a healthy reaction and a much higher vibration than apathy), but from a place of our absolute innocence when we come into this world and the inherent imperfection of a family system that is responsible for the form of belonging that we carry from then on, we have to learn to hold WIDER view!

And this view is 100% ancestral! As I was shown by my ancestors through mediumship-mediation- chat- call to the other side however you want to call it, it is like your body holds all these pockets of energies. Call them attachments or beliefs because they got hooks to them and they want to lure you in any opportunity they got!

These memories, experiences, trauma, deep patterns of behaviour are not you, they are a cloud of ancestral data (truly generational one) like an annoying ad on youtube that keeps trying to pull you in.

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In this world, I stand for people who are coming into their worth, their own financial freedom, who feel secure and safe wherever they go, who believe they can run big companies, own massive buildings and businesses.

I stand for wo-men who don't want to sacrifice their ideas and dreams.

I stand for wo-men who are looking to find their voice and financial freedom.

I stand for those who are dependant or have recently been dependant and are looking for a way out.

I stand for those who are not looking for a rescue -victim-perpetrator relationships

I want real success in what I am doing, I want to have a voice and give a voice. I want more people thinking bigger, much bigger than they possibly allow themselves. I want more girls to be educated about how to have financial freedom/security. I want women getting into cabs knowing it is safe. I want to see a little girl buy a building one day herself not be a secretary. More importantly, it is my wish to see more balance in power dynamics.

If you are a woman in power, what is your legacy? Are you going to repeat the pattern of your ancestors or are you going to bring true equality? In Oprah’s words:

one needs a vision for your future
one needs passion
one needs compassion
one needs a commitment to that passion and compassion
one needs to never give up and understand whatever it is you want in life is achievable

Don’t fall into misleading hooks of drama stored in your body temple. Look at it, learn from it, see the bigger picture that hurt people hurt people. Have a view from a higher perspective and you will come to find some compassion for your perpetrator be it a person or disease. Remove yourself, heal and speak out anytime you are seeing this pattern repeat. Focus on the goal, that which you would like to achieve. Don’t rescue anyone, don’t squash anyone and don’t be squashed. Equal, balanced and stable.

What to do:

learn about your passion ( go to courses, get a degree and never ever stop learning)
invest in your wellness ( I highly recommend investing as much money, energy and time you can into healing, besides how can you have compassion for others if you don’t have it for yourself)
learn about your family dynamics and how it is reflected in your relationship with work, money, food… you name it!

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I love seeing individuals in their search for their power, at the head of their game, behind a big corporation, on the leading edge of businesses, travelling through uncharted territories, exploring new unknown landscapes and alien environments! Seeing themselves anew in these spaces, places and roles for the first time. A little scared, but thrilled and excited having gained their inner power and freedom - balance.

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I am enjoying this process of becoming and I am enjoying seeing people in the process of becoming whole. It is one’s responsibility to learn how to invest in your longterm stability.

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